Making Significant Financial Decisions (financial planning, stewardship)

Throughout our life, we are presented with financial decisions as we enter new seasons and developmental stages. As a child, we need to figure our how to wisely spend our precious dollars from an allowance. As a young adult, we consider what university to attend, near or far away from home, and how to pay for it. As we grow older, we make decisions about our car and home. Even in our aging years, we need to make decisions about retirement living and with loss of mobility and mental capacities, what supported living arrangements are best and affordable.
Most of these decisions have significant implications on our family, lifestyle, future and ability to respond to and fulfill the call of God on our lives. The impact of these factors need to be considered individually and collectively.
The Process…
If you are married, I believe it is important to begin the decision making process by being intentional in making the decision with your spouse. Walking in unity in areas such as our finances is important for the foundation of your marriage. If not done, the area of money management can be an area the enemy uses to bring conflict and division.
For those not married, finding a trusted friend whom you believe has your best interests at heart, willing to speak truth in invaluable. Parents and or other significant family members can also aid in the process of assessing all aspects of the decision.
Most important of all, is giving the decision and the outcome to the Lord. Trust the Lord will lead you as you make financial decisions. By entrusting the decision to the Lord, you are in essence giving Him permission to speak and guide you. He desires to bless and give you wisdom as you seek Him with all your heart. "If the Lord delights in a man's way, He makes his steps firm" (Ps. 37:23).
Secondly, gather all the facts. Fact gathering positions you to see the realities of the situation and in some ways distance yourself from the emotion of the decision making process. Luke 14: 28 says, "Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won't you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?”
Another key step is to consider what the Word has to say about increasing your debt and living beyond your means, not being able to give and bless, and living in ongoing fear and anxiety. Consider taking the time to read what Jesus taught about money and possessions and apply this teaching to your life. Sometimes what we believe we need is in actuality a ‘want’ and we can let it go or set our sights a little lower.
Also, give yourself the space and time to make the decision. In many instances, the urgency of tyranny is driven by our own emotions and thinking. In reality, there is always time to weigh all aspects of the decision and to ‘sleep on it’, allowing God and yourself to see another perspective not always evident at the moment.
One other step is to ask the Lord for confirmations. God uses others to bring us counsel as Proverbs 15:22 says, “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” The confirmation from others can reveal any deception of our own hearts. "Every matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses" (2 Cor. 13:1b). This is God's way of keeping us within the hedge of His protection.
Finally, once you have made the decision, do you have a peace in your heart about it? If your thoughts are still racing and all over the place, this might be a red flag to slow down and re-consider all the above steps.
Moving Forward…
There is nothing more freeing and life giving to see God go before us and make a way in our finances when we least expect it. By giving the process and decision to Him, we welcome His Lordship in this area of our lives and allow Him to meet us in our time of need. It also opens the doors for miracles.
As Os Hillman said – “write your plans in pencil and give God the eraser!”









